Listen to what I say, and do what I ask. And I don't expect any bullshit talkback. Do you understand? He confessed that sometimes he does not appreciate himself and his relationship with his wife. I reminded him that everything changed when he consumed the wedding cake, which was supposed to symbolize their union but became a catalyst for their discord.

It could be a match made in heaven or hell.  But if he chose to eliminate this one, the next one will be the same, with a different set of problems to deal with, a cycle of failed relationships and unfulfilled promises. 

Settle down, buckaroo, the ride is long-term, and it gets better when both of you remove your egos from the equation. You will eventually become best friends and rely on each other for mutual support.